It’s important to know that having relationships or joking with non-related women, or even looking at them without a reason, is not allowed. In Islam, husbands have many duties towards their wives, and they will have to answer to Allah if they neglect these duties. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said that the believer with the best character is the one who treats his wife the best. So, husbands should avoid inappropriate behavior, treat their wives well, and end any improper relationships with other women, asking Allah for forgiveness.

Wives should also wisely advise their husbands, take care of them, look good for them, obey them in all permissible matters, and pray for them. They should try to keep the marriage strong.

If a husband is truly sorry and asks for forgiveness, the wife should forgive him and trust him, because only Allah knows what is in people’s hearts. Avoiding doubts can help keep the marriage intact, since divorce, though allowed, is disliked by Allah.

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“قُلْ لِّلْمُؤْمِنِيْنَ يَغُضُّوْا مِنْ اَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوْا فُرُوْجَهُمْ  ذٰلِك اَزْكى لَهُمْ اِنَّ اﷲَ خَبِيْرٌ  بِمَا يَصْنَعُوْنَ.”[النور : 30]

Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and protect their private parts. This is purer for them. Allah is fully aware of what they do.

“قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: «خيركم خيركم لأهله وأنا خيركم لأهلي.”

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: ‘The best of you is the one who is best to his family, and I am the best among you to my family.

Engaging in any form of sexual activity with a woman other than one’s wife, such as having extramarital relations to the extent that the man’s seminal fluid (sperm) enters the woman’s private parts, is considered “Zina” in Islamic terms. Additionally, actions like kissing, hugging, touching, or any physical intimacy with a person who is not one’s spouse also fall under the category of “Dawai Zina” or actions that lead to adultery. Both Zina and its related actions are viewed as grave sins and major violations of Islamic principles.

In Islamic jurisprudence, Zina and its related actions are strongly condemned, and they are considered sinful acts that require repentance and seeking forgiveness from Allah. It’s important to note that while these actions are sinful, they do not invalidate a person’s marriage to a lawful spouse. However, they are still considered immoral and against the teachings of Islam. It is recommended for individuals who engage in such actions to sincerely repent and strive to avoid committing these sins in the future.

All the messengers and prophets, peace be upon them, have always taught us about the Hereafter. The simple understanding is that this world is a testing ground, and Allah has sent us here to be tested, to see who has faith and does good deeds. Just as Allah has created us here, He will also resurrect us on the Day of Judgment after our death, and we will be held accountable for our actions before Allah.

Those who believed in the teachings of the prophets followed their obedience, and performed righteous deeds will be successful, while those who were disobedient will fail. The successful ones will be blessed with eternal paradise, and the unsuccessful ones will enter Hell and endure painful punishment.

The real home is the Hereafter, and this world is no more than a transient stop in this journey. Death is not the end but a transition from one phase to another. There are eight gates of paradise, and the distance between the two doors of paradise is like that between Mecca and Medina or Mecca and Basra.

The first group to enter paradise will shine like the full moon, and those who follow them will shine even brighter than the stars in the sky. The people of paradise will have no needs; there will be no phlegm or spitting.

They will have golden utensils, and their sweat will smell like musk. Their incense burners will be made of a special kind of wood, and there will be no disagreements or hatred among them. They will be like one person, like the likeness of Adam, who was sixty feet tall. They will glorify Allah morning and evening.

The people of paradise will enter paradise without hair or beards, at the age of thirty-three. Their faces will radiate with honor, light, beauty, and freshness. You will see the radiance of blessings on their faces. If a woman from paradise were to peek into the world, it would illuminate the space between heaven and earth, and her scent would be better than all the worldly blessings. In paradise, there will be no unmarried person.