What to do if your husband cheats on you in Islam?
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Assalamualaikum warahmataullahi wabarakatuh
Cheating in Marriage is the worst case among all the disputes occur between husband and wife, Islam prohibits it for both man and women, but if you found your husband cheating on you, kindly consider the following steps:
1- Make sure 100 % that he is cheating, do not decide it just by some signs or habit. May be he is not like what you are thinking,
2- if you find him a cheater, have a clear discussion with him before anyone , because do not let any one enter your relation unless it goes so far, and if he accepts to leave Haram relationships, forgive him and live a happy life.
3- if he continues to have haram relations , add some one from your family who you think the most suitable person to handle the situation and let him try to convince him.
4- if all the above options fail, ask him to leave you. Allah will grant you someone better than him
JazakALLAH o khaira
It’s important to know that having relationships or joking with non-related women, or even looking at them without a reason, is not allowed. In Islam, husbands have many duties towards their wives, and they will have to answer to Allah if they neglect these duties. The Prophet Muhammad (๏ทบ) said that the believer with the best character is the one who treats his wife the best. So, husbands should avoid inappropriate behavior, treat their wives well, and end any improper relationships with other women, asking Allah for forgiveness.
Wives should also wisely advise their husbands, take care of them, look good for them, obey them in all permissible matters, and pray for them. They should try to keep the marriage strong.
If a husband is truly sorry and asks for forgiveness, the wife should forgive him and trust him, because only Allah knows what is in people’s hearts. Avoiding doubts can help keep the marriage intact, since divorce, though allowed, is disliked by Allah.
Reference :
“ูููู ูููููู ูุคูู ููููููู ููุบูุถููููุง ู ููู ุงูุจูุตูุงุฑูููู ู ููููุญูููุธูููุง ููุฑูููุฌูููู ูย ุฐูฐููู ุงูุฒููู ููููู ู ุงูููู ุง๏ทฒู ุฎูุจูููุฑูย ุจูู ูุง ููุตูููุนููููู.”[ุงูููุฑ : 30]
Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and protect their private parts. This is purer for them. Allah is fully aware of what they do.
“ูุงู ุฑุณูู ุงููู ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู : ยซุฎูุฑูู ุฎูุฑูู ูุฃููู ูุฃูุง ุฎูุฑูู ูุฃููู.”
The Messenger of Allah (๏ทบ) said: ‘The best of you is the one who is best to his family, and I am the best among you to my family.
If your husband is cheating on you, you can follow these instructions !
1. Make sure that your husband is really cheating on you. As Allah says in the Holy Quran (Chapter 26, Surah Al Hujurat, Verse 12), “O believers! Avoid much assumption. Indeed, some assumptions are sin.”
2. When you are satisfied that your husband is really cheating on you, then you should confront him privately. As Allah says in the Holy Quran, husbands and wives are a cover for each other.
3. If he does not return to the straight path, then you should inform your parents and try to make it right together.
4. If he still doesn’t want to understand, then you can proceed with divorce and be positive that Allah will grant you a very good life partner.